whoever says MS doesn’t define them is a liar. MS affects every part of my life! every part. even the private ones, the parts i work very hard to compensate for. it affects how often i see my friends, whether my house is clean, where and how often i shop for groceries, and what job i will take in the future. it is something that i have to consider in every aspect of my life. now tell me, how does that not define me? how does that not shape the decisions i make–the decisions that form patterns and habits and roles? the decisions that become actions which are consciously executed by my body and mind and are visible and observable by those around me. how is that not then, a definition of what i do and therefore, who i am?
i get really tired of hearing such ridiculous mantras from people. MS does define us! let’s just learn to be ok with that. let’s just learn how to grow in this definition instead of wasting our time trying to convince ourselves that it doesn’t exist.